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Ruth Sylvia Gill, Baroness Fermoy

Female 1908 - 1993  (84 years)


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  • Name Ruth Sylvia Gill  [1, 2
    Suffix Baroness Fermoy 
    Birth 2 Oct 1908  Dalhebity, Bieldside, Aberdeenshire, Scotland Find all individuals with events at this location  [1, 2
    Gender Female 
    Death 6 Jul 1993  London, Middlesex, England Find all individuals with events at this location  [1
    Notes 
    • Wikipedia Biography of Ruth Sylva Gill

      Lady Fermoy was born Ruth Sylvia Gill at her father's house, Dalhebity, Bieldside, Aberdeenshire, the daughter of Colonel William Smith Gill and his wife, Ruth. [1] She showed early promise as a pianist and studied under Alfred Cortot at the Paris Conservatoire in the 1920s. [2]

      Her musical career was cut short when she met, and later married in 1931, the wealthy and much older Edmund Roche, 4th Baron Fermoy. Before he died in 1955, they had three children which included her middle child, Frances Ruth (the mother of Lady Diana Spencer). Lady Fermoy did play the piano in public occasionally after her marriage, most notably with Josef Krips at the Royal Albert Hall in 1950, and with Sir John Barbirolli and the Hall? Orchestra at King's Lynn in 1966.[3] She founded the King's Lynn Festival in 1951 and remained closely involved with the Festival for 25 years, persuading Queen Elizabeth to become its patron. [4]

      In 1956, Queen Elizabeth, the Queen Mother, appointed the Dowager Lady Fermoy an Extra Woman of the Bedchamber. The Queen Mother, being a widow herself, showed a preference for appointing widows to her household, and four years later Ruth, Lady Fermoy was promoted to Woman of the Bedchamber, a post she held for the next 33 years. [5]

      The Queen Mother and Lady Fermoy became confidantes and it was largely supposed that they engineered the match between Charles, Prince of Wales and Lady Fermoy's granddaughter, Lady Diana Spencer. However, when asked about it, Lady Fermoy remarked, "You can say that if you like ? but it simply wouldn't be true". [6] It was also said that she counselled her granddaughter against the marriage. [7]

      Lady Fermoy was a firm believer in the sanctity of marriage. In 1969, she testified against her own daughter's fitness as a mother, thus allowing Edward Spencer, Viscount Althorp to retain custody of their children after the couple's divorce. [2]

      Lady Fermoy died at her home, 36 Eaton Square, London, [8] aged 84. It was reported that she was not on speaking terms with Diana when she died. [2]

      1) Williamson, D The Ancestry of Lady Diana Spencer In: Genealogist's Magazine, 1981; vol. 20 (no. 6) pp. 192-199 and vol. 20 (no. 8) pp. 281-282
      2) The Times (London), Thursday, 8 July 1993; p. 4 col. D and p. 19 col. A
      3) Vickers, Hugo (2006). Elizabeth: The Queen Mother. Arrow Books/Random House. p. 337. ISBN 9780099476627.
      4) History of the King's Lynn Festival
      5) Mosley, C (ed.) Burke's Peerage, Baron
    Person ID I36900  Strong Family Tree
    Last Modified 17 Aug 2014 

    Family Edmund Maurice Burke Roche, 4rth Baron Femoy,   b. 15 May 1885, Chelsea, Middlesex, England Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 8 Jul 1955, Norfolk, England Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 70 years) 
    Marriage Scotland Find all individuals with events at this location  [2
    Children 
     1. Hon. Frances Ruth Roche,   b. 20 Jan 1936, Norfolk, England Find all individuals with events at this locationd. 2 Jun 2004, England, United Kingdom Find all individuals with events at this location (Age 68 years)
    Family ID F11367  Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
    Last Modified 28 Apr 2012 

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  • Sources 
    1. [S819] Wikipedia Article.

    2. [S408] Strong Family Association of American Website, (http://strongfamilyofamerica.org/ Former address: http://sss.geocities.com/sfaapage).