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Josephine Patricia "Jo Pat" Kubik

Female 1949 - 2009  (60 years)

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  1. 1.  Josephine Patricia "Jo Pat" KubikJosephine Patricia "Jo Pat" Kubik was born on 13 Aug 1949 in Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma (daughter of Amos Stanley Kubik and Mary Patricia O'Neill Sparks); died on 29 Sep 2009 in West Chester, Chester County, Pennsylvania; was buried on 7 Oct 2009 in Duncan Catholic Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.

    Notes:

    Daily Local News
    Serving Chester County, PA

    Friday, October 2, 2009

    Josephine Patricia Kubik, 60, of Exton, passed away on Tuesday, Sept. 29, 2009, at Chester County Hospital, West Chester.

    Born in Duncan, Okla., she was the youngest daughter of the late Amos and Mary Pat Kubik.

    She was preceded in death by her brother, Pete Kubik, on March 16, 2009.

    She is survived by her three sisters, Rita Litton of Woodland Hills, Calif., Mary Sue Sparkman of Exton and Martha Lewis of Imperial Beach, Calif.; 11 nephews and nieces; and numerous great-nephews and great-nieces.

    Jo was beloved by many people in Duncan and Marlow, Okla., and in Exton. Her large, extended family and many friends will miss her compassionate and giving spirit and her great sense of humor.

    Jo Pat graduated from Duncan High School, was employed by the Duncan Credit Union, Halliburton, Security National Bank, Taco Bell, Bedrock Nursery in Lawton, Okla., and lately owning and running her own business, Jo's Smoked Meats. She was an active volunteer worker in the aftermath of the bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building in Oklahoma City.

    There will be a graveside service held at the Duncan Catholic Cemetery, Duncan, Okla., on Wednesday, Oct. 7, at 2 p.m.

    In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Cancer Center of Chester County, 440 E. Marshall St., Suite 201, West Chester, PA 19380.

    Arrangements are being handled by Don Grantham Funeral Home, Duncan, Okla., 580-255-6666.

    (Courtesy of Lynell Gentry Cordell)


Generation: 2

  1. 2.  Amos Stanley Kubik was born on 25 Jan 1911 in Chickasha, Grady County, Oklahoma (son of Joseph Kubik and Sarah Isabelle "Belle" Givens); died on 26 Apr 2001 in Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma; was buried in Duncan Municipal Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.

    Notes:

    The Duncan Banner
    Apr 29 2001

    Amos S. Kubik Amos S. Kubik, 90, of Duncan died Thursday, April 26, 2001, in Duncan. Service will be at 1 p.m. Tuesday in the Assumption Catholic Church with the Rev. Donald J. Wolf officiating. Burial will be in the Duncan Cemetery under the direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home in Duncan.

    Amos was born Jan. 25, 1911, in Chickasha to Joe and Lottie Givens Kubik. He married Mary Pat Sparks on June 19, 1933, in El Reno and she preceded him in death on Dec. 2, 1983. Amos had a genius for making and keeping friends. His early life was very hard as the middle of three brothers whose mother left the family when they were quite young. He grew to manhood in the early depression years, completed high school and became a cross-country bus driver, taking the longest routes for maximum income to support his family of four daughters and a son, in addition to other family members and friends down on their luck. He retired from his job with 44 years of safe driving and many, many friends along the routes and in the towns where his buses made stops and among his fellow drivers.

    Amos never allowed the frustrations and anxieties of this somewhat nomadic life, which kept him away from his beloved family many nights and most weeks, to overcome his basic good nature, deeply felt emotional ties to all kinds of people in all stations of life.

    Amos was deeply committed to economic and racial justice and made his personal life an example in the Jim Crow days of Oklahoma and Texas, standing by his union and his belief in equalities in a region that was generally hostile both to minorities and to unions. He never apologized for his political and social beliefs but he never seemed to give offense with them either...people knew that his ideas and beliefs were from the highest of motives and a sensitive, caring personality.

    Amos was an excellent woodworker, a very good mechanic and gifted with enormous common sense. He was never selfish with his money or goods or time and each of his children had a warm and affectionate relationship with him, although a very different one in each case.

    Amos and Mary Pat, his wife of 51 years, remained a loving couple to the very end of her life and they were blessed in his post-retirement years with the time to travel, to shop for the collectibles and antiques which they both loved and to work on their lovely home, largely built from a smaller place by Amos himself. The very many close friends of Amos Kubik and his descendants, who include five children, Ireta Kubik Litton of Woodland Hills, Calif., James "Pete" Kubik of Houston, Texas, Mary Sue Sparkman of Exton, Pa., Martha Ann Lewis of Tujunga, Calif., and Jo Pat Kubik of Marlow; a half-brother, Art Red; 12 grandchildren; and seven great-grandchildren, will hold the memory of this gentle, honest and loving person and of his devoted wife who preceded him in death for their time on this earth.

    Rest in peace. Bearers will be Robert Litton, Marc Litton, Joe Lewis, John Strong, Bill Strong and George Ausbrooks. Honorary bearer is Charles Strong.

    (Note: Amos was married twice after the death of his first wife. His second marriage was brief. His third wife, Francis, predeceased him).

    Amos married Mary Patricia O'Neill Sparks on 18 Jun 1933 in El Reno, Canadian County, Oklahoma. Mary (daughter of James Rufus Sparks and Annie Josephine O'Neill) was born on 8 Mar 1914 in Oklahoma; died on 2 Dec 1983 in Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma; was buried in Duncan Municipal Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  2. 3.  Mary Patricia O'Neill SparksMary Patricia O'Neill Sparks was born on 8 Mar 1914 in Oklahoma (daughter of James Rufus Sparks and Annie Josephine O'Neill); died on 2 Dec 1983 in Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma; was buried in Duncan Municipal Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.

    Notes:

    She had a very slight web on her left hand, which caused her difficulty in wearing her wedding ring.

    Pall bearers at her funeral were John Strong, Bill Strong, Homer Strong, Bill Hunter, Joe D. Lewis, Clayton DuBose, Robert Litton. Honorary bearers were: Chris Litton, Marc Litton, Richard Foster, Vic Powers, Dale Murrell, Hoyt Hardin and Mack Ogle.

    Children:
    1. Living
    2. James Joseph "Pete" Kubik was born on 28 Jun 1935 in Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma; died on 16 Mar 2009 in Harlingen, Cameron County, Texas.
    3. Living
    4. Living
    5. 1. Josephine Patricia "Jo Pat" Kubik was born on 13 Aug 1949 in Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma; died on 29 Sep 2009 in West Chester, Chester County, Pennsylvania; was buried on 7 Oct 2009 in Duncan Catholic Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.


Generation: 3

  1. 4.  Joseph Kubik was born on 27 Nov 1879 in Scottsbluff, Scotts Bluff County, Nebraska; died on 20 Dec 1957 in Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma; was buried in Duncan Municipal Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.

    Notes:

    From FindAGrave:

    Obit: The Duncan Banner December 20, 1957 Page 1
    Joseph Kubik, 78, Dies This Morning

    Joseph Kubik, 78, of 213 South 9th, died in a local hospital at 11:25 am today after suffering a cerebral hemorrhage.

    Kubik, who lived in Duncan 36 years, had been hospitalized for three days. He had worked at the Browder, Matt and Bill's, and Hutchison & Roundtree Hardware stores here before retiring about two years ago.

    A native of Scottsbluff, Neb., he was a member of the First Baptist Church and International Order of Odd Fellows Lodge here.

    Service will be at 2 pm Sunday in Grantham Funeral Home Chapel.

    The Rev. J.Thurmond George, First Baptist pastor, will be assisted in the service by the Rev. V. A. Jones of Immanuel Baptist Church. Burial will be in Duncan Cemetery.

    Survivors include the widow, Lottie; and three sons, William R of 9 South 12th; Amos S of 221 North 11th; and R. Dale of Kennewick. Washington.

    Also two brothers, Ladd and Stanley, both of El Cajon, CA; and two sisters, Mrs. Anna Fillipi of Pasadena, CA, and Mrs. Joe Sanders of Scottsdale, AZ.

    Seven grandchildren and a great-grandchild also survive.

    Bearers will be Matt Culp, Peter Sisler, Bill Hoard, Ed Wagnon, Marshalll Walters, and Dr. Wayne Odom.

    Joseph married Sarah Isabelle "Belle" Givens about 1905. Sarah was born between 1885 and 1887 in Texas; and died. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  2. 5.  Sarah Isabelle "Belle" Givens was born between 1885 and 1887 in Texas; and died.

    Notes:

    Nicknamed "Red" for her hair color.

    Her given name was Sarah Isabelle, but she went by Belle, and was also called "Red" for her hair color. She was shown to have first married a Tyler Marter/Martin in 1900, and married Joseph Kubik five years later.

    She appears to be the daughter of William Arthur GIVENS and John Ann HOLLOWAY, who both died in Wheeler, Texas; granddaughter of George Wesley GIVENS and Polly Ann MILLER; great-granddaughter of John C. GIVENS and Loryuhama Lavina BELL, and second great granddaughter of John Givens and Elizabeth SEALS of Virginia who later settled in Monroe County, Tennessee.

    http://presys.com/~debinflorence/WGivens.html

    (Research):Census Listings:

    1910 Census
    Oklahoma, Grady County, Chickasha Twp, Pr 1
    Enumerated 21 Apr 1910
    SD 5 ED 99 Sheet 5 A Stamped 187
    719-97-107
    Kubik, Joseph Hd M W 29 M1 5 Neb US US English Salesman Har
    dware
    Kubik, Sarah I Wf F W 25 M1 5 3/2 Tx US US
    Kubik, Tyler Son M W 7 S Ok Ne Texas
    Kubik, Rodrick Son M W 3 S Ok Ne Tx

    1920 Census
    Texas, Roberts County, Pr. 1, Miami City
    Enumerated 2 Feb 1920
    SD 18 ED 212 Sheet 5A
    105-109
    Kubik, Sarah I Hd F W 33 M Tx US US Hotel Keeper Local Hotel
    Martin, Tyler Son M W 18 S Ok Tx Tx Laborer Day
    Kubik, Roderick W Son W 13 S Ok Tx Tx
    Kubik, Amos S Son M W 8 S Ok Neb Tx
    Kubik, Dale R m W 5 S Ok Neb Tx

    Notes:

    Married:
    They had three children, Amos, Rod and Dale. Amos was the middle child. The birth order of the other two is not certain.

    Children:
    1. Roderick W. Kubik was born after 1907 in Texas; and died.
    2. 2. Amos Stanley Kubik was born on 25 Jan 1911 in Chickasha, Grady County, Oklahoma; died on 26 Apr 2001 in Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma; was buried in Duncan Municipal Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.
    3. Dale Kubik was born about 1915 in Texas; and died.

  3. 6.  James Rufus Sparks was born on 11 Aug 1867 in Caldwell County, North Carolina (son of Clingman "T.L" Sparks and Sarah Adeline ???); died on 14 Aug 1946 in Oklahoma; was buried in Duncan Municipal Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.

    Notes:

    At the time of the 1920 census, he was listed as the properitor of a hardware store.

    James married Annie Josephine O'Neill on 27 Nov 1907 in Chickasha, Grady County, Oklahoma. Annie (daughter of John O'Neill and Sarah Elizabeth Payne) was born on 14 May 1884 in Texas; died on 30 Jun 1967 in Oklahoma; was buried in Duncan Municipal Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  4. 7.  Annie Josephine O'NeillAnnie Josephine O'Neill was born on 14 May 1884 in Texas (daughter of John O'Neill and Sarah Elizabeth Payne); died on 30 Jun 1967 in Oklahoma; was buried in Duncan Municipal Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.

    Notes:

    SSDI search result: Annie Sparks born 14 May 1884, died June 1967 (SS#447-34-9349) Death benefits sent to OK City, OK 73107.

    Annie had a considerable library and she gave Lewis Adair Payne a set of Shakespeare's plays. The volumes were bound in rococo leather and printed on thin India paper. These had been given to her as a gift by her lawyer. Lewis was supposed to inherit her set of Dickens books but they went elsewhere.

    She had a beautiful large cut glass punch bowl which was thought to have been stolen for a long time. One day it was discovered in the local priest's home. Apparently she had lent it for a church event and both parties forgot about it.

    She died in poverty having lost her money through lack of financial acuity. She was a very generous and thoughtful person.

    At the time of the 1930 census, she was listed as follows:

    303-69-71 Sparks, Annie Head 0 $5000 F W 45 D No Yes Texas Northern Ireland Missouri Yes Manager Estate Employed 3N -----------, Mary P Daughter F W 16 S Yes Yes Oklahoma North Carolina Texas None

    Notes:

    Married:
    STEPHENS COUNTY MARRIAGES - 1907 - 1912 SPARKS, JAMES R 38 O'NEILL, ANNIE J 23 27 NOV 1907 ST-1-5

    Duncan Banner November 29, 1907 A Pretty Home Wedding
    The beautiful home of Mr. and Mrs. Jno O'Neill was the scene of a pretty home wedding Wednesday morning at 10 o'clock when their daughter, Miss Annie J., was united in marriage to Mr. J.R. Sparks, Father Urban De Hasque officiating.
    The house was tastefully decorated with crysanthemums and potted plants and brilliantly lighted, the effect producing a harmonious feeling of joy and good cheer--an omen of good luck. After the ceremony the guests assembled around the pre-Thanksgiving festal board and partook of an elegant wedding breakfast.
    A number of immediate friends of the family were in attendance and the contracting parties were the recipients of many handsome presents.
    The bride is a highly accomplished young lady, possessing many charms of both mind and heart, and has grown to womanhood in this city. The groom is sober, industrious and reliable well worthy of the flower he has plucked from the beautiful home garden. They start out in their new relations under most auspicious circumstances and with the best wishes of a host of friends.
    The Banner joins in the hearty and sincere congratulations that are being showered upon them and hopes their wedded life will prove one long, sweet dream of happiness, contentment and prosperity.

    The Duncan Banner
    Friday, Dec. 10, 1926
    DIVORCE APPLICATION FILED
    Mrs. Annie O'Neil Sparks Seeks Separation From Husband
    Mrs. Annie O'Neill Sparks, 303 Hickory avenue, filed application for a restraining order to prevent her husband, James R. Sparks, from coming to the Sparks home after today. The application was granted.

    A petition asking for a divorce from Sparks was to follow, it was understood.

    Children:
    1. John Hugh Sparks was born on 30 Jan 1909 in Oklahoma; died on 18 Jun 1909 in Oklahoma.
    2. James O'Neill Sparks was born on 30 Aug 1911 in Oklahoma; died on 24 Sep 1911 in Oklahoma.
    3. 3. Mary Patricia O'Neill Sparks was born on 8 Mar 1914 in Oklahoma; died on 2 Dec 1983 in Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma; was buried in Duncan Municipal Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.


Generation: 4

  1. 12.  Clingman "T.L" Sparks was born on 7 May 1844 in Caldwell County, North Carolina; died on 7 Jan 1927.

    Notes:


    Sparks, T. L. - (CSA), 58th North Carolina Infantry, Co.H. b.5/7/1844; d.1/7/1927. Wife's name was "Sarah Adeline" (b.1/12/1849; d.2/13/1942). Owner of plot was "Mrs. T. L. Sparks." In 1/3/1913 Duncan Banner article & 1/1/1913 reunion photo (which was published in Foot Steps 2:2). May have an OK CSA pension application # 5136, reel # 13 (under "Thomas L."). Buried in the Duncan city cemetery (block 14, lot 5, space 6).

    "T.L. Sparks, 401 Pine Avenue, died Friday morning after an illness which his advanced years made difficult to withstand. Mr. Sparks was 83 years old. Sparks, a retired farmer, has lived in Duncan for the past 15 years. He was a veteran of the Civil War, having fought with General Lee under the command of George Parker. He was in the Civil War 3 years. Sparks was only 18 years old when he enlisted.

    "Jim B. (sic) Sparks, his son, who has been buying cotton seed said that his father had been a member of the Methodist Church for the last 45 years. He had been married 62 years, the ceremony being performed November 8, 1866 in Caldwell County, North Carolina, where the elder Sparks was born and raised.

    "Three children survive. J.R. Sparks of Duncan, Mrs. Lucy Pend of Dallas and Miss Norma (sic) Sparks of Duncan. The funeral was set for 3 p.m. Saturday at the Sparks residence on Pine Avenue. Burial was to be at the Duncan Cemetery with the Beeson Grantham Funeral Home officiating." (Duncan Banner, January 14, 1927)

    (Courtesy of Lynell Cordell)

    Lynell also found this information on another Sparks from the Duncan area. His relationship, if any, to T.L. Sparks is unknown.

    http://hometown.aol.com/thedsmith/myhomepage/index.html

    Sparks, John M. - (USA or CSA?). b.10/22/1841; 3/14/1918. Name is listed on Marlow vet monument. Wife's name was "America E." (b.3/15/1846; d.12/20/1918). Masonic symbol on headstone. Listed in Dale Talkington's The Long Blue Line as a Union veteran. May have an OK CSA pension application # 1586, reel # 4 (under "John H."). Buried in the Marlow city cemetery (section 12, block 78, lot 1).

    (Research):
    Census Information:


    1880 Household:
    Name Relation Marital Status Gender Race Age Birthplace Occupation Father's Birthplace Mother's Birthplace
    Clingman SPARKS Self M Male W 36 NC Farmer NC NC
    Sarah A. SPARKS Wife M Female W 30 NC Keeping House NC NC
    James R. SPARKA Son S Male W 11 NC NC NC
    Lucy C. SPARKS Dau S Female W 9 NC NC NC
    Mary E. SPARKS Dau S Female W 3M NC NC NC Source Information:
    Census Place Lenoir, Caldwell, North Carolina
    Family History Library Film 1254955
    NA Film Number T9-0955
    Page Number 553D


    1900 Census
    Texas, Foard, JP 2, ED 27
    236-236
    Sparks, Clingman Hd W M May 1847 55 M 34 NC NC NC Farmer
    Sparks, Adda Wife W F Jan 1852 48 M 34 3/3 NC NC NC
    Sparks, James R Son W M Aug 1871 28 S NC NC NC
    Sparks, Emma Dtr W F Feb 1881 18 S NC NC NC

    Clingman married Sarah Adeline ??? on 8 Nov 1866 in Caldwell County, North Carolina. Sarah was born on 12 Jan 1849 in North Carolina; died on 13 Feb 1942. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  2. 13.  Sarah Adeline ??? was born on 12 Jan 1849 in North Carolina; died on 13 Feb 1942.

    Notes:

    Married:
    The 1910 census indicated that T.L. and Adda had been married 39 years. It was a first marriage for both. Adda was the mother of three children, all living.

    Children:
    1. Jane Sparks was born about 1867 in Caldwell County, North Carolina; died before 1880.
    2. 6. James Rufus Sparks was born on 11 Aug 1867 in Caldwell County, North Carolina; died on 14 Aug 1946 in Oklahoma; was buried in Duncan Municipal Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.
    3. Lucy C. Sparks was born about 1872 in Caldwell County, North Carolina; and died.
    4. Mary Emma Sparks was born about 1880 in Caldwell County, North Carolina; and died.

  3. 14.  John O'Neill was born on 27 Aug 1845 in County Tyrone, Ireland (son of Patrick O'Neil and Annie McClosky); died on 14 Nov 1914 in Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.

    Notes:

    John O'Neill initially made a lot of money, in partnership with with his brother-in-law Walter W. Payne, by renting cattle grazing from the Indians in Indian Territory in what was later to become Oklahoma. When the area was opened up to settlement and he was no longer able to rent grazing rights, he subsequently bought some of this land in the Chickasaw Nation. He later co-founded, with Walter Winchell Payne, the Oklahoma National Bank in Duncan, originally capitalised at $50, 000. He later raised hogs and cattle.

    He built an imposing house in Duncan in 1902. Much of the material used in this house, including the large cedar beams, was hauled by ox-pulled wagons from Gainesville, Texas. For a period of time the west upstairs bedroom was used as a Roman Catholic Mission. (Goins, C. R. & Morris, J. W. (1980) Oklahoma Homes Past and Present University of Oklahoma Press: Norman) At the time of the 1910 census, he was listed as having an "independent income."

    The O'Neill home was later lived in by his daughter Byrd, and then by her sister, Annie Josephine O'Neill and her husband James Rufus Sparks. There were lots of books in the house. It is highly probable that John O'Neill was an educated man.

    The building was later bought by the Coffee family and a photograph of the house at this time appears in Goins & Morris where it is classified as a pre-statehood house with Georgian columns and called the Coffee House.

    John's gold plated top, black walking cane is the property of Mrs. Robin White of Kansas City. (1999).

    Betty from the Duncan library located these two articles about the O'Neill's in the Duncan Banner:

    7 Feb 1908

    Work of the addition to the O'Neill building will begin this week, some of the material being already on the ground. The addition will be 37X40 feet, two stories in height. It will be cut up into rooms for use by county officials. An awning will be run full length of the building on the west side. Editor Woods of the Eagle will soon move around on newspaper row. He has purchased the sheet iron building on the O'Neil lot and will move it fifty feet north, next door to the jail, where it will be converted into a print shop.

    14 Feb 1908

    Mr. O'Neill, of the O'Neill Construction Co., of Dallas, Texas, was in the city Friday in consultation with representative citizens int he matter of extending the water system. Just what agreement, if any, was reached has not been made public, who will establish a grade level and submit estimates for increased water supply, the extension of mains and a system of sewerage. If these plans meet with favor and are within reasonable bounds, the matter will be submitted to the people for approval or rejection. In the meantime it might be well to keep your ear to the ground. A greater and better Duncan is the watch-word all along the line. It's time to get busy.

    This first article definately related the John O'Neil of Duncan. The second may not be. Charles Strong does remember that John O'Neil was involved with the Duncan water works. Perhaps the O'Neill Construction Company of Dallas was owned by a relative.

    The following obituary was found by Charles Strong on a microfilm of the "Duncan Banner" at the Oklahoma State Archives in Oklahoma City. It was dated Thursday, 19 November 1914.

    John O'Neill Dead

    John O'Neill died at his residence in this city Saturday Nov. 14, 1914 at 1:45 p.m. aged 69 yrs, 2 mo, 17 days.

    The subject of this sketch was born in Tyrone county Ireland, August 27, 1845 and came to Kentucky in 1867 and to Oklahoma in 1885, settled on what is known as the O'Neill place one mile north of Velma, 29 years ago where he lived until a few years ago when with his family he moved to Duncan...Besides a devoted wife he leaves two daughters...

    The funeral services were held at the Catholic Church at 9:30 a.m. Monday, November 16th, 1914, after which the body was laid to rest in the City Cemetery.

    A more detail obituary was subsequently located by Charles Strong as well:

    The Duncan Banner - Special Edition Volume XVII Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma, Friday, No. 44

    Duncan, Oklahoma, The Queen City of Southern Oklahoma

    Page 5 - Lower Left Column JOHN O'NEILL Prominent Citizen, Banker and Merchant

    But few men who have been identified with the development and growth of Oklahoma can lay claim to more popular favor and consideration of the public than this distinguished pioneer of Duncan. Mr. O'Neill is a native of Torrone(sic),Ireland, having been born in the Green Isle in 1846, from whence he came to America, landing upon the shores of the United States in the year 1867, practically penniless but equipped with a large stock of manly courage, a strong intellect and a will to do, characteristics inherent in the native born sons of the Emerald Isle. He first located in the state of Kentucky where, as a young man, he engaged in the pursuit of farming until 1877, when he moved to the state of Texas, where he lived and followed the business of raising cattle until 1885 when he removed to the territory now Oklahoma, settling on Wild Horse Creek, where he continued the business of raising cattle for twenty years. As a cattle grower he was very successful in amassing a comfortable fortune for himself. Mr. O'Neill moved to Duncan five years ago, bringing with him a large amount of capital which he invested in a way to add to the material strength and up-building of the city, becoming largely interested in the O'Neill-Frensley D(ry) G(oods) Co., which interests he has still retained, besides erecting at large cost the well known O'Neill business and office block-one of the most substantial and pretentious structures in the city. These do not, however, include all the interests of Mr. O'Neill. He is in fact financially interested in a number of the most valuable enterprises of the city, among other things, is a large stockholder in the Duncan National Bank. Thus it will be seen, as a pioneer citizen of this new country, he has been a vital force in the development and advancement of the community wherein he lives. It is due to the meritorious work of such men as he that Duncan and Stephens County are now regarded as not only a promising and profitable place for the investment of capital, but a most desirable place for settlers of all classes to locate. Mr. O'Neill is not only a prominent figure and potent factor in the material advancement of the community, but is a man of high moral integrity and standing, one who upholds the law, supports and encourages the cause of religion, morality and good citizenship, and all public spirited movements are tendered(sic) his endorsement and support, and every new project and enterprise calculated to benefit the community or prove conducive to the public welfare is generously aided and encouraged by him.

    The following comes from Stephens County Genealogy Society publication "FOOTSTEPS", Oct. 1999, vol. 14, # 4, p 15. It was said to be based on an obituary published on November 20, 1914. Was this perhaps a second obituary?

    John O'Neil dead

    The subject of this sketch was born in Tyrone County, Ireland, in 1845, and moved to America at the age of 22 years, and has been a resident of Oklahoma, in what is now Stephens county, for 29 years, and cast his lot with the Duncan citizenship about 15 years ago. He was the first man to erect one of Duncan's most substantial business blocks, and which he still owned at the time of his demise. He also owned one of the finest homes in the city, and was in everywise [sic] a very progressive citizen. He was loved and highly esteemed by all that ever knew him; ever ready to lend a helping hand to the needy and was never called upon by the people for any kind of a public enterprise that he did not respond nobly with his means and strength.

    John O'Neil died at home Saturday afternoon, November 14, 1914, at 1:45 o'clock. Funeral services were held at the Catholic church [sic] Monday morning at 9:30 o'clock, and his remains laid to rest the Catholic cemetery in this city. A large crowd of sorrowing friends attended the funeral services. The majority of the business houses were closed as well as all of the banks of the city.

    He is survived by his wife, two daughters, Mrs. J.R. Sparks and Miss Byrd O'Neil of this city, also one brother and two sisters who still live in their native country Ireland.

    Mr. O'Neil will be greatly missed by all the citizens of Stephens county [sic], as he was well and most favorably known to the majority of the entire population.

    The Church of the Assumption in Duncan, Oklahoma published a handout on Sunday, June 28, 1992 to celebrate Religious Heritage Day as part of the Centennial Duncan (1892-1992) celebration. "Coyles, Hills, Grahams, Huntleys, Wades, O'Neils. These among some of the earliest Catholic families no longer have descendants who carry their name on our parish rosters. However, a few of their progeny continue as active parishioners...Both sides of Anna Laura (Roonie) Strong's family history intertwines in their settlement of Duncan before the 1900s. Her Uncle John and Aunt Annie Sparks O'Neil's home presently the Phil Leonard home, was used regularly for masses before the first church was built in 1909."

    An article in the DUNCAN OKLAHOMA BANNER on 25 March 2001 had additional details on the establishment of the Catholic Church in Duncan. Titled "Young Cowboy began Catholic service in area," it detailed the contributions made by Bill Wade and his brothers in helping to establish a Catholic Church in the area. The Rev. Urban de Hasque, a Belgian immigrant priest, began regular trips by railroad from his Chickasha Parish to preside at mass in private homes. The John Weaver home was used for the first Catholic service in Duncan on December 12, 1902. In 1905, regular masses continued in the John O'Neil home, now known as the Pace Mansion. J.D. Wade gave land for the building of a church, and Lucian Haas, a young parishioner contributed much of the labor. The first service was held on January 1, 1909 with 20 Catholics present. In 1938, Duncan was almost changed to mission status. But in 1939, the Rev. George Fangauer, was appointed and the church remained a parish.

    Charles Strong also notes that John O'Neil donated land for a Catholic Cemetery.

    Finally, the following biography was emailed by Margie Meenan in February 2014. It was found on Mocavo.com, a genealogy search engine, and was from a compilation of Stephens County, OK biographies, the original source said to be A STANDARD HISTORY OF OKLAHOMA, Volume 4, by Joseph Bradfield Thoburn.

    John O'Neill
    The late John O 'Neill was born in County Tyrone, Ireland, August 27, 1845, and was in his seventieth year when he died. His father, Patrick O'Neill, was born in the same county of Ireland in 1813, lived there a farmer all his life and died in 1901. John O'Neill spent his .early life in Ireland, was educated there, and in 1863 at the age of eighteen went to Scotland, but after a year or two returned to Queenstown, and in 1866 took passage for the New World. He landed in Philadelphia, remained there about six weeks, then went to Mount Sterling, Kentucky, and his farming experience in that state continued until 1879.

    It was about thirty-five years ago when John O 'Neill came to the Southwest and first located in the vicinity of Sherman, Grayson County, Texas. He was one of the early farmers and ranchers in that locality, but about 1881 moved to another place in Montague County, near the Red River boundary of Texas. His residence in Southern Oklahoma dates from 1885, when he was one of the pioneer white ranchers to secure a foothold on the Indian lands in the vicinity of Wild Horse Creek. His operations as a rancher and farmer continued there on an increasing scale until 1904, when he relaxed in some degree the strenuous activities that had engaged him to that time, and moved into the town of Duncan. His work and influence are visibly impressed upon the general business and civic progress of Duncan. For a time he had a dry goods store and was also one of the directors of the First National Bank of Duncan, and was one of the founders and a director in the Duncan National Bank, which was established August 8, 1904. In 1905 he was instrumental in having the bank erect its new stone building on Main street. His creditable work in the upbuilding of Duncan should never be passed over without honorable mention. He was a patron of the local schools and helped the village improve its institutions and establish its prosperity on a sound basis. Though he long stood as a leader, he had no aspirations for office, and contented himself with voting the democratic ticket. He was a member of the Catholic Church.
    John O'Neill married Elizabeth Payne, who was born within three miles of the county seat of Shelby County, Missouri, acquired her education in that and other counties of Missouri and in the Baptist College at LaGrange in that state. She and her daughter now occupy the fine residence built by the late Mr. O 'Neill at the corner of Third and Hickory streets in Duncan. In addition to this town home the real estate comprises a splendid tract of a thousand acres of land twenty miles east of Duncan, of which 800 acres are under cultivation, and also a stone business building at the corner of Main and Eighth streets, Duncan. Mrs. O'Neill has two daughters. Annie Josephine was married at Duncan November 27, 1907, to James R. Sparks, he is a Duncan hardware merchant, and they have one child living, Mary Patricia, born March 8, 1914. Bird, the younger daughter, is Joint administratrix with her mother of the O'Neill estate. She is a graduate of St. Joseph's Academy at Guthrie, Oklahoma.
    Mrs. O'Neill is a daughter of Thomas H. and Martha (Marshall) Payne. The Payne family is of Scotch Irish ancestry, and was established in Virginia before the Revolutionary war, and after that struggle moved across the mountains into Kentucky. Thomas H. Payne was born in Bourbon County, Kentucky, in 1821, and died in Montague County, Texas, in September, 1884. The principal places of his residence were in Bourbon County, Kentucky, in Palmyra, and Shelby County, Missouri, and late in life he removed to Montague County, Texas.
    He was a farmer and stock raiser during the greater part of his active career. During the war he participated on the Federal side for about one year, having first served in the Missouri militia under John Glover and continued with those troops when they were regularly enrolled in the Federal army. He was stricken with pneumonia while in the service and given an honorable discharge for disability. Martha Marshall, the mother of Mrs. O'Neill, was born in Kentucky in 1827 and died in Montague County, Texas, in October, 1900. Mrs. O'Neill was the oldest of their ten children, and some mention of the others of the family is as follows: Harriet Katherine, who now lives in Idaho, is the widow of the late Thomas Joiner, a farmer; Samuel, who lives on a farm near Marlow, Oklahoma: William, a farmer at Marlow; Winifred, at Butler, Oklahoma; Newton, a farmer near Wewoka, Oklahoma; Gallic, wife of Fred McClannahan, a carpenter and builder who lives at Holbrook, Arizona ; Lulu, wife of Allison Scott, a retired railroad man at Fort Worth, Texas; Thomas, who was a rancher and died at Duncan at the age of forty-three; Walter, a farmer and rancher at Duncan.
    [Source: A Standard History of Oklahoma Volume 4 By Joseph Bradfield Thoburn - Submitted by a Friend of Free Genealogy]

    John married Sarah Elizabeth Payne on 18 Aug 1883 in Montague, Montague County, Texas. Sarah (daughter of Thomas Hamilton Payne and Martha Jane Marshall) was born on 10 Oct 1845 in Shelby County, Missouri; died on 10 Apr 1919 in Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma. [Group Sheet] [Family Chart]


  4. 15.  Sarah Elizabeth Payne was born on 10 Oct 1845 in Shelby County, Missouri (daughter of Thomas Hamilton Payne and Martha Jane Marshall); died on 10 Apr 1919 in Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.

    Notes:

    Married:
    Their marriage was recorded in Montague County Courthouse Marriage Book B, page 61. The wedding was conducted by S.C. Royal, Minister of the Gospel.

    Children:
    1. 7. Annie Josephine O'Neill was born on 14 May 1884 in Texas; died on 30 Jun 1967 in Oklahoma; was buried in Duncan Municipal Cemetery, Duncan, Stephens County, Oklahoma.
    2. Bird Elizabeth O'Neill was born on 4 Sep 1889 in Indian Territory; died on 5 Apr 1921 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma County, Oklahoma.